If a person thinks ill and unkind thoughts of someone, for example a neighbor or a coworker, then that is the attitude they have toward that person.
If you are flooded with thoughts over the way people drive while heading home during rush hour, your attitude toward them is composed of your thoughts.
Dr. Wayne Dyer, Ph.D., an author and speaker in the field of self-development, believes when we change the way we look at things the things we look at change. He also was quoted saying “When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself.”
Some quotes from my favorite quote book may get us thinking in the right direction. The first one is from Dyer.
“You create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions, and your intentions create your reality.” — Dr. Wayne Dyer
“All that a man achieves and all that he fails to achieve is the direct result of his own thoughts.” — James Allen
“The soul never thinks without a picture.” — Aristotle
“Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on thee ...” — Isaiah 26:3
“If you strike upon a thought that baffles you, break off from that entanglement and try another, so shall your wits be fresh to start again.” — Aristophanes
“If you think you can, you can. And if you think you can’t, you’re right. — Mary Kay Ash
“The happiness of your life depends on the quality of your thoughts. — Marcus Aurelius
“I have always found that the man whose second thoughts are good is worth watching.” — James M. Barrie
“I carry my thoughts with me for a long time, often for a very long time, before writing them down.” — Ludwig van Beethoven
“Think like a man of action, act like a man of thought.” — Henri Bergson
“To think is to live.” — Marcus Tullius Cicero
To sum it all up, our thoughts comprise our overall attitude. What’s on your mind? For some of us it may be a place we would rather not talk about. The best advice I can give is from Philippines 4:8, from the New International Version of the Bible. “Finally, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable — if anything is excellent or praiseworthy — think about such things.”
If we keep our mind on these things then think about how great our attitude would be — not to mention how much joy this would bring us. Life is short. Don’t just live your life ... live it well.